The Soulful Coach

Lesley Kerrigan | Root-cause emotional coaching for brilliant, high-achieving women ready to understand overwhelm and live from steadiness, not survival. Wirral & Online.

It’s Not Just Holiday Stress — It’s the Life You’ve Been Carrying All Year

December hasn’t even arrived yet — but you can already feel the tension in your chest.

The pressure to hold everything.
The family dynamics.
The deadlines at work.
The logistics, the perfectionism, the smiling through.

Most high-functioning women I work with arrive here — right around this time — feeling like they should be coping better.
But coping isn’t the goal. And when your nervous system is carrying a load that started way before Christmas, the cracks start to show.

Here’s what I want you to know:

It’s not just the season that’s stressing you.
It’s the year behind you. The expectations on you.
The parts of life that have slowly become unsustainable — emotionally, relationally, energetically.

Women like you don’t usually wave a flag when they’re struggling.
You keep moving.
You get it done.
You tell yourself a walk, or a bath, or some space will fix it.

But deep down, you know it’s more than that.

The emotional weight you’ve been holding hasn’t just made you tired — it’s made it hard to feel like you.

This isn’t about fixing your holiday calendar.
It’s about reclaiming your internal one — the rhythm you’re actually meant to live by.

That’s where my work comes in.
I offer grounded, emotionally intelligent coaching for women who are done performing peace and ready to live from it.

Most people tell you to “lower expectations” in December.
I help you change what you expect of yourself.

That’s the difference.

My work isn’t about fixing you — it’s about freeing you from the weight of who you think you have to be.

Like ‘G’, who came to me last year dreading Christmas. The family tension, the forced smiles, the fear of being forced to meet with those who'd hurt her.
Together, we worked on her nervous system safety, her internal boundaries, and the quiet, grounded belief that she was allowed to choose herself — without guilt, without performing peace.

This year, she’s not just coping. She’s choosing.
A simpler season. A calmer nervous system. A Christmas that feels like hers.

You don’t have to overhaul your life.
You just need somewhere to start.

  • Try a 90-Minute Clarity Session if you need an immediate, grounded reset

  • Or choose The 4-Week Realignment to move through December in a way that feels like you

You’re allowed to feel good this season.
Let’s begin there.

Book your free call through the contact page.
We’ll talk honestly, without pressure. Just clarity, support, and a real next step.


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